J is so wonderfully diligent. She called the spe.rm bank with our new choices then narrowed them down by previous pregnancies and swimmer counts. Then she ordered pics of the 3 top choices. She also talked to someone who actually works at the bank about the men’s characteristics. She is the champ at organization and getting the best. So after all was said and done, potential baby daddy #3 turned out to be choice #1 after looking at the photos. In retrospect, I will say that photos are more important than I initially thought. Let me just give you an image of one potential…. think of someone you would not want to meet in a dark alley (include questionable grooming)… that was almost the donor we chose. After seeing all the photos, we have a very clean cut, handsome baby daddy…. he also has several children from his donations. Swim buddies swim!